Why do women act out of love when they’re actually in love?

Why do women act out of love when they’re actually in love? 
Why do they tend to push away their men with this foolish attitude? 

And when the men are gone, their eyes get opened to see what foolish mistakes had been committed by them. 
By then it’d be too late to correct these mistakes because you can’t expect the man to be waiting for you to come to your senses. 

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying it’s not possible to correct those mistakes; I guess what I’m trying to say is that most times you don’t get the chance to correct them.
 
A man always wants to be ahead, thinking and making plans on how to get ahead they don’t need the distraction women give them, they need a woman to make plans with not women who will distract them. 

If you’re not being understandable then you’re a distraction.
He'll surely leave you if you're always distracting him.

Learn to support your man, listen to him and never judge his actions. Correct him with love when he’s wrong, don’t embarrass him in public. Respect is reciprocal.