WHAT WOULD YOU HAVE DONE? ??

Good day fams,

How is it going?.... Today I'm a lil bored but lively enough to eat and watch movies. 

Today I'm going to tell you a little story about a little family in my neighborhood. 

There was these peaceful muslim family, a boy (eldest), and three girls. 

The father actually has another family elsewhere in Ibadan..... I know nothing or little about the later though. 

Well, the father is a business man who doesn't spend much time at home with the family I know of. Financially, he's very responsible but in other ways? I don't really know cos I don't see much of him in his kids, meaning, he doesn't reflect I his kids in other ways like, "emotionally, intellectually" etc.

Not long ago the wife was caught cheating with an Alfa (caught having an affair with a Muslim cleric). The husband was devastated, he doesn't want anything to do with the woman and her children anymore. He has asked the woman and her children to move out of the main building after much pleading from friends and family but he has vowed never to have anything with the woman and her children anymore. 

Whenever he's home, he doesn't speak to his kids even when they are trying to get his attention. Even his last kid who is not more than 3yrs old can't get his attention. 

Now, who is at fault? The Cleric (Alfa)? The man? For not spending time with his wife? Or The woman? For cheating at all? Or all of the Above for allowing themselves to be used....... 

Do you think it's appropriate and mature for the man to be giving his kids the same cold shoulder? 

Let's hear your opinions in the comment box